Grief does not distinguish between people to person. It surrounds us after the event occured and sits with us silently. It is us who respond different to its presence. And what to do, when an aspect of yourself is in the way of the sense of gratitude and piece? The drama of the mind is the suffering of the body. Experience the darker aspects of yourself to only then be able to meet your complete self. Remain who you are at your very core to find out that you have no form in there, but vibration.